(PDF NEW) [If the Buddha Dated] ✓ Charlotte Kasl

Lly our love interests Admittedly I struggle with this "CONSTANTLY AND IT WAS VERY APPARENT IN MY MOST "and it was very apparent in my most relationships so it definitely hit home and called for some self reflection In addition Kasl discusses how anxiety is inherent in most relationships because they resurrect the feelings of attachment we had with our mother or primary caregiver We were once completely merged with our mother and unconsciously we still desire that feeling of complete and utter connection We want someone to take care of us soothe us comfort us But we are adults now Therein lies the problem She reminds us that this trap is asy to fall into specially when first starting a relationship Kasl is adamant about this fact that we need to be happy with ourselves and "Be Okay With Letting A Relationship End "okay with letting a relationship nd it does Our go tricks us into getting into a state of panic at the possibility of loss but if we relax and realize that this is just a moment in life and that people will always come and go and that we will continue to live we will be happier and appreciative of the learning xperiences that come with ach relationshipThroughout the book Kasl always mentions how the most important relationship is the one we have with ourselves and how if we learn to fully love and accept very aspect of ourselves we will be tremendously happy in or out of love and accept Cabaret: A Roman Riddle every aspect of ourselves we will be tremendously happy in or out of relationship. Ight heart to the romantic journey Filled with uotations from Zen Sufi and other wisdom traditions and informed by thexperiences of people from all walks of life here is a relationship book that will appeal to readers looking for than a Venus meets Mars solution to the complex affairs of the hear. Appropriate book at this point in my life After many failed romances and at the tender age of 22 I was starting to become a little cynical This book redirected to a healthier and loving a place where I learn to love and respect myself before getting involved with anyone lse Yes the urge to feel loved and have romance in my life is still there but now I look at it with different yes now I ask myself what is this loneliness signaling Am I loving and nurturing myself

right now I am learning slowly how to soothe my own anxieties and tenderly love myself without resorting to dating It s a tough journey specially for someone admittedly has a dating addiction but this book has surely helped a lot Kasl an incredibly fascinating woman begins with a little background on Buddhism and reminding the reader of the 4 noble truths suffering is inherent to life we create our suffering through attachments and demands that things be different than they are we can ase our suffering by ceasing our All Roads Lead Home endless demands and accepting the what is of life and the last truth which is through complete acceptance of the what is in life and recognizing the superficial desires we harbor we learn to live in peace and love With this in mind we can contemplate on how we push our agendas on the world and subseuently other people including andspecia. Rstanding to the anxiety and uneasiness of new love and helps readers discover their potential for vibrant human connection based on awareness kindness and honesty She approaches the dating process as a means for awakening reminding us that when we live by spiritual rules we bring curiosity and a ,

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Despite a chic lit ish sounding "TITLE THIS IS PROBABLY THE MOST "this is probably the most profound yet simple book I ve read on approaching relationships from a spiritual perspective not just buddhism as the author integrates sufism and uaker themes amongst others One of my main criterion for reviewing a book is to assess how much it has taught me For that this book deserves reviewing a book is to assess how much it has taught me For that this book deserves than five stars it deserves one for ach chapter This book clearly respects and honors LOVE AND IT DOES IT THROUGH and it does it through mentally healthyspiritualpsychological lenses I cried many times reading it and I feel that it has changed me Sometimes I spend an ntire day remembering a chapter I cannot recommend this nough to both singles and nonsingles This book caught my ye on the shelf at an interesting time an intriguing character had just The Mephisto Threat (Paul Tallis entered my life and then left just as uickly afterntrancing me with his spirituality and shocking me with his dismissal and disappearance A truly inspiring conversation with this person led me to consider an approach to life that welcomes the present moment and opens myself to the possibilities around me for love in ssence the message of If the Buddha DatedOne thing that made the material in Kasl s handbook hard to digest was the unclear structure and a lack of relatable xamples She laborates on the xperiences of many couple What an. In this practical playful yet spiritual guide Charlotte Kasl author of the highly successful Finding Joy 101 Ways to Free Your Spirit and Dance with Life shows you what it would be like to have the ancient wisdom of the Buddha to guide you through the dating process Kasl brings a compassionate unde. ,
If the Buddha Dated